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What are the signs of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction?

By | 2016-10-21T15:13:53+00:00 October 21st, 2016|REDMinutes, REDMinutes Men|

REDMINUTE Gabe Deem founder of the website Reboot Nation answers the question "What are the signs of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction?" PIED, as it's also known, can manifest in a few ways. Sufferers might find that they can't get aroused, even when with a partner, without fantasising about things they've watched online. They might also find they lose their libido [...]

What is Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction?

By | 2016-10-21T15:16:24+00:00 October 13th, 2016|REDMinutes, REDMinutes Men|

REDMINUTE Gabe Deem founder of the website Reboot Nation answers the question "What is Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction?" Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction or PIED, as it's commonly known, is caused when you condition your brain's arousal template to be turned on only by pixels on a screen, only by pornography. This is a relatively new phenomenon brought on by the [...]

What is accountability?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:08+00:00 April 22nd, 2016|REDMinutes, REDMinutes Men, REDMinutes Parents, REDMinutes Partners, REDMinutes Women|

REDMINUTE Ron DeHaas president of Covenant Eyes answers the question "What is accountability" Accountability is designed to help you build relationship so that you can change your own behaviour, "You can't manage what you don't measure." It's a way to monitor you internet use with a friend/colleague looking out for you, rather than trying to do it "cold turkey," [...]

How do I talk to my daughter about porn?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:09+00:00 November 22nd, 2014|Parents, REDMinutes, REDMinutes Parents|

REDMINUTE Jessica Harris answers the question "How do I talk to my daughter about porn?" Pornography is not something you can just talk about with your daughter once, it's important that discussion about sexuality is ongoing. The conversation will change as your daughter matures, ranging from talking about how female sexuality plays out in her favourite [...]

Why do women view porn?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:12+00:00 September 9th, 2014|REDMinutes, REDMinutes Women, Women|

REDMINUTE No. 21 Jessica Harris answers the question "Why do women view porn?" The reasons that women view porn is varying. There's not one specific reason. Some women might view porn out of curiosity. They don't know what it is. Or they might have a husband, boyfriend or father who are looking at it, so they start watching [...]

How can churches help those struggling with porn?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:17+00:00 April 26th, 2014|REDMinutes|

REDMINUTE No. 19 Pastor, Dr Allan Meyer answers the question "How can churches help those struggling with porn?" One of the challenges of helping someone who have been struggling with porn is that any sexual issue can involve tremendous levels of shame. This makes it difficult for people to be open, honest and transparent or [...]

Why speak about porn at church?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:20+00:00 February 23rd, 2014|REDMinutes|

REDMINUTE No. 18 Pastor, Dr Allan Meyer answers the question "Why speak about porn at church?" The church needs to be involved in the issue of pornography because it is such a damaging issue. It is damaging to families, causing marriages and relationships to fall apart. For men who struggle, they dislike themselves, feel unloved [...]

How long does recovery take?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:20+00:00 October 16th, 2013|Partners, REDMinutes, REDMinutes Men, REDMinutes Women, Videos, Women|

REDMINUTE No. 14 Dr. Steven Lytle from Sparrow House Counseling answers the question "How long does recovery take?" Recovery looks different for everyone, but chances are, if you have been viewing porn for a long time, recovery isn't just a weekend conference or a one time counselling session. Recovery is a process that takes time. [...]

Why should the spouse of an addict seek help?

By | 2016-10-14T11:11:20+00:00 August 10th, 2013|Partners, REDMinutes, REDMinutes Partners|

REDMINUTE No. 12 Dr. Steven Lytle from Sparrow House Counseling answers the question "Why should the spouse of an addict seek help?" Pornography keeps the person suffering from the addiction in isolation, but it can also keep the spouse in isolation. Meeting with a counsellor will be helpful to identify that isolation. There are a [...]